Becoming a Sovereign Woman: Why I Wrote Unapologetically Feminine

Lucia Petrusova
2 days ago
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Every woman who works with me eventually arrives at the same place.

She becomes sovereign.

Grounded in herself. Clear in her boundaries.

No longer negotiating her worth — in love, in work, or in life.

This is not something I teach from theory.

Before I could guide women into sovereignty, I had to walk that path myself.

Sovereignty Is Not an Idea — It’s Lived

My sovereignty wasn’t born from books or concepts.

It was shaped through lived experience.

Through moments where my intuition whispered — and I stayed anyway. Through choices that didn’t honour my body. Through relationships, professional situations, and inner negotiations where I slowly learned what self-abandonment actually looks like.

Dating was part of that journey — but this was never about men.

It was about the relationship with myself.

The moment everything changed wasn’t when someone else showed up differently.

It was when I stopped negotiating with myself.

When I understood that femininity is not weakness.

It is grounded. Self-led. Clear.Sovereign.

Why This Book Is Not About Dating

Many women assume Unapologetically Feminine is a dating book.

It isn’t.

Dating is simply one of the mirrors through which self-abandonment, intuition, standards, and boundaries become visible.

What this book is truly about is self-leadership.

One reader described it perfectly:

“This book is not about dating and not about relationships with men. It’s about the best relationship one can have — the relationship with yourself.”

Another reader wrote:

“It’s a powerful reminder that femininity, when fully owned, is not weakness but power.”

From Personal Story to Shared Transformation

Many women who choose to work with me tell me the same thing:

“I want to work with you because of who you are.”

They are curious about my story — not out of comparison, but because embodiment creates trust.

They want to understand how I became the woman I am today.

Unapologetically Feminine is my answer.

It’s a story of becoming.

Of learning to trust the body. To listen to intuition. To set boundaries without guilt. To stop lowering standards — internally and externally.

One reader shared this with me after finishing the book:

“It helped me trust myself more — my body, my feelings, my boundaries. It reminded me that I am ok. That I am the queen. And one day, I will share this book with my daughter.”

This is the legacy of sovereignty.